I think “writer’s block” is a catch-all term for a lot of different ways we can get stuck with our writing. When you identify exactly what a problem is, you have a better chance of overcoming it. See if any of these sound familiar to you!
1. You’re not in the habit of writing.
If you’re not used to doing something, whether it’s exercising, writing, or whatever, it takes a ton of effort to get yourself to do it. If you do it regularly, though, it’s easy.
I think if you pick a certain writing time–before work, after dinner, whatever–and just write anything at that time every day for a week or two, it will get a lot easier to work on your project. Alternately, try writing really fast at any time for just twenty minutes a day for a week–again, any kind of writing at all–just to get into the groove.
2. You’re scared your writing won’t be good.
You probably know the old adage, repeated by so many writers: you can fix a bad page, but you can’t fix a blank page.
You’re allowed to write some bad stuff. There are all kinds of people out there doing awful writing, and some of them make a good living at it.
But besides that, writing bad stuff is the actual only way to learn how to write not-bad stuff! It’s a crap system, obviously, but as always, nobody consulted us. Celebrate all your efforts. Congratulate yourself wildly for the work that you get done, regardless of quality.
Writing longhand rather than typing on a keyboard can sometimes make me feel less perfectionist about a first draft.
If it helps you to think in this way (and it’s not useful for everybody), tell God or your patron goddess that you’re going to be writing a lot, and you’ll be doing your best, but it’s on Her/Him to make it good.
3. You’re scared no one will read your writing.
Maybe you’re scared no one will publish you. Maybe you’re scared you’ll finally put your fanfic up on the website and nobody will comment.
But consider this, señora. (<– I have linked to the literary reference here, which is a novel by the National Book Award winner Harriet Doerr, who published her first book at the age of 73.)
If you write something, it’s possible that no one will publish you, or even read the thing you posted on a site. If you don’t write something, it’s 100% guaranteed that no one will publish you, or read your thing.
Besides, you yourself are a worthy audience. You’re not no one.
Either way, you enjoy the actual act of writing itself. It’s wonderful to get lost in your own thoughts, your own characters, or your own world, and writing makes you a more interesting and intelligent person in general. Don’t deny yourself the pleasure.
Time spent writing is never wasted.
4. You’re scared that people will read your writing.
Of course you are! The very act of writing can bring up all kinds of experiences we pretend never happened, emotions and attitudes we pretend we don’t have, and all kinds of things we deny in order to get along with everyone else.
Here’s the thing, though. Other people have gone through what you have gone through. They feel what you feel. They would love to know they are not the only one.
Write it, put it out there if you want, and let people do what they want. Like everything else, the more often you do it, the easier it gets.
You know how in the movies, there will be a big explosion and some badass who doesn’t even look back–s/he just keeps on walking? That’s you.
5. There’s something wrong with your story, and you don’t know it yet.
You know what, it took me forever to figure this one out. When I’ve lost enthusiasm for a story, it’s because something about it needs to be fixed.
I sometimes find it difficult to pull back and analyze what’s bugging me about it. It helps me to write at the top of a piece of paper,
OK, Bryn, what’s bothering you about the story?
And then I free-write an answer as fast as I can.
Sometimes we want to avoid changes because we think they’ll be hard. But once we know what’s wrong, it’s usually takes less time to fix than we expected.
6. You’re completely stressed out by life and can’t focus.
I sympathize, and I don’t have an easy answer. Maybe there are responsibilities you can relinquish and activities you can drop out of. Maybe you can figure out a way to get more sleep every night, which is crucial to stress reduction and mental health. Regular walks might help, and you might also try meditating for a few minutes before you start writing.
Honestly, you’re going to do a better job than me of figuring out how to fix this. But if you recognize that being this stressed out is unacceptable, and taking care of your mental state is a priority, that’s a great start.
7. You haven’t found enough time to read lately.
I find myself in this situation sometimes, too. Reading books feeds your writing, and scanning bits and pieces on the internet or watching television just isn’t the same.
Do you get blocked for an entirely different reason? I’d love to hear your thoughts! I hope your writing is going great right now!
This is a great post! I’ve worked my way through a lot of these over the years. If I start to lose interest in a piece, I remind myself that means the reader probably will too and I need to take steps to fix that spot in the story. The act of fixing it (by making it more funny or dark or action-y, etc.) gets me back in the swing of things and makes the piece stronger. Sometimes the words elude us because they’re trying to tell us something.
Oh, that is such a good point. Someone told me a while back that if I’m bored writing a scene, other people will be bored reading it…seems obvious, but it honestly hadn’t clicked with me before they said it!
Exactly! I don’t remember where I heard this, but it was a crucial bit of advice and is probably my best defense against writer’s block.
Thank you so much for this! I’ve been blocked for a while now, and this actually makes a lot of sense. I’ve been told several “remedies” for writer’s block, but this is the first one that sounds like it might actually help.
This may sound like a ridiculous question, but I’ve been trying to switch from writing fanfiction to my own original works, and while I have plenty of ideas, I have no clue where to start. How do you start writing something, and where would you start it?
Ah, thanks for the kind words 🙂 I think fanfic is a great gateway to original work (of course, a lot of fanfic is very original, but you know what I mean!)
It’s totally okay to be inspired by other characters when you’re beginning any story. For instance, by the time you make Spock a non-alien, and give him a job as a cop, and normal ears and blond hair, and a fondness for dogs…he’s not really Spock any more, so who cares?
A lot of fanfic writers gravitate toward character first. You could try figuring out your character…name, appearance, personality, job, family history, etc. …and then ask yourself:
~What is something this person *really wants*…and what might be in the way?
~What would be this particular person’s worst nightmare?
That might point you to a story!
I think it’s so exciting that you’re venturing into new territory. I hope it goes great!
I have different answers on why a person suffers from writer’s block, but you have a point.
I can relate to number three so much, and most of time, I can only get over it, when I really want to change my status as writer or if I really want to get something done.
Great post.
Thanks very much, and thanks for commenting! What causes writer’s block, do you think? I’m sure there are lots of things I haven’t thought of here.
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Thank you for the last three paragraphs in response to #3. I’ve always felt that I write for myself first, and for others second.
But, after starting to write for a major fandom, I began to get used to the feedback that I was receiving. And it began to be like a drug to me. Then my supposed best friend and I had a huge falling-out, which resulted in me becoming a virtual fandom recluse to avoid her harassment.
Because of this, I no longer have the audience I was so accustomed to. I left most of the websites we had in common, which means that I lost the bulk of my readers. This means, of course, that I also don’t get that feedback. It’s very lonely, and I miss it.
I need to remind myself that it isn’t about other people liking my work. I’m the one who needs to like it, first. I need to be able to read what I write, and be pleased with it. I have to go back to writing for myself first, and others second.
Luckily, I’ve recently been on a huge productive streak, one that I’m delighted with. I’m proud of what I’ve been doing in the past week, and I don’t even know if anyone’s been reading it. I’ve been reading it and enjoying it, and it’s pushing me to want to keep moving.
So thanks for that. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate this article in its entirety, and that section, specifically.
Hey Bryn! I mentioned you in my recent blog post with a link to this. Thanks for creating such helpful content!
How did you get into my head? How did you perfectly detail my issues? I have all of them. Thank you for this article. Sometimes just having the actual issues articulated helps a person to begin to work on them.